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How to Get Over Your Anger With Your Parents - Jayson Gaddis - 537

Tue, 29 Jul 2025

Jayson dives into the challenge of getting over anger toward your parents. Did your parents drop the ball in ways that still affect you today? How does your past shape your present relationships? What does it actually look like to move from victim to author? And how do you know when you've truly let resentment go?

Jayson also explores why it’s important not to focus solely on the negative, how growth can happen through adversity, and the personal cost of holding on to anger. Don’t miss this powerful solo episode.


Timestamps:

  • 1:50 - Did your parents drop the ball?
  • 4:45 - Your past impacts your present
  • 8:13 - Moving from victim to author
  • 11:04 - How do you know when you’ve let resentment go
  • 14:53 - Don’t solely focus on negatives
  • 18:03 - Growth through adversity
  • 20:53 - The personal cost of anger and resentment

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Group Work, Healing, and the Role of the Facilitator with Christian Pankhurst

Tue, 22 Jul 2025

Christian Pankhurst joins Jayson to talk about group work. What does “healing” really mean? What do transformative arcs in group therapy look like? Should the facilitator be part of the group? Can group work replace one-on-one therapy? How can you stay well as a healer? How should facilitators deal with projection? Stay tuned until the end to hear Christian and Jayson share their self-care strategies.

Timestamps:

  • 2:22 - Emergent group facilitation
  • 3:48 - Is the facilitator part of the group?
  • 8:48 - Transformative arcs in group therapy
  • 13:37 - What does “healing” mean?
  • 15:53 - Why group work?
  • 25:52 - Group work vs one on one
  • 30:59 - Staying well as a healer
  • 40:09 - Dealing with projection as a facilitator
  • 50:56 - Where to find Christian

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Coaching Someone Whose Partner Isn’t Doing the Work - Jayson Gaddis - 535

Wed, 16 Jul 2025

How should you coach someone whose partner isn’t doing the work? Jayson breaks it down. How should coaches and therapists get their clients to focus on themselves? Should clients leave or stay with an impossible person? Why is it so important for clients to have their feelings validated? How can you help your clients take responsibility for not speaking up? Don’t miss this insightful look at a difficult situation.

Timestamps:

  • 1:18 - Coaching someone whose partner isn’t doing the work
  • 4:47 - Getting clients to focus on themselves
  • 8:47 - Staying with an impossible person
  • 10:35 - Leaving an impossible person
  • 15:00 - You need to have your feelings validated
  • 20:35 - Helping clients feel the sharp edge of the knife
  • 24:00 - Why do clients get defensive about the partner they’re criticizing?
  • 25:00 - Coaching your client to ask their partner to change
  • 31:21 - Helping your clients take responsibility for not speaking up

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Psychedelics: Revolutionary Healing Tool or a Spiritual Bypass? - Dr. Will Van Derveer - 534

Tue, 08 Jul 2025

Dr. Will Van Derveer joins Jayson to discuss the uses and misuses of psychedelic drugs. He shares his background, his work in integrative psychiatry, and the limitations of conventional mental health treatments. Dr. Van Derveer also explores the therapeutic potential of ketamine, MDMA, LSD, psilocybin, and more.

Are there people who shouldn’t use psychedelics? If you’re going to use them, what are some best practices? Don’t miss this enlightening episode.

Will Van Derveer, MD is a leader in the adoption of integrative psychiatry practices globally. After discovering that his conventional psychiatric training was inadequate to answer many of the challenges facing his patients, Dr. Van Derveer began to learn how to resolve the root causes of common psychiatric problems such as depression, anxiety, and insomnia.

Dr. Van Derveer has published research on MDMA-assisted psychotherapy for PTSD and written book chapters in the fields of ketamine-assisted psychotherapy and other clinical applications of psychedelic compounds. His passion is finding effective relief from psychological suffering using a vast array of the most natural approaches possible. In addition to traditional medical training, He is a meditation instructor and has trained in shamanism, EMDR, somatic experiencing, internal family systems, cognitive behavioral therapy, and hypnosis.

Timestamps:

  • 1:09 - Will's journey
  • 3:24 - Limitations of conventional mental health treatments
  • 14:56 - Will's journey with psychedelics
  • 22:16 - Ketamine
  • 27:08 - MDMA
  • 31:09 - Other psychedelics
  • 42:20 - Jayson's experiance with psychedelics
  • 46:02 - Problems in the psychedelics scene
  • 57:02 - Psychedelics as part of a long-term treatment plan
  • 1:00:00 - Who does NOT benefit from psychedelics?
  • 1:04:00 - Tips for using psychedelics
  • 1:07:00 - Where to find Will


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The Victim Triangle - Jayson Gaddis - 533

Tue, 01 Jul 2025

Are you stuck in victimhood? Jayson breaks down how to invert the victim triangle and make the shift from victim to author. What’s the difference between blame and responsibility? Is being in the victim seat always a bad thing? Stay tuned until the end when Jayson shares one important question you should always ask your clients - and yourself.

Timestamps:

  • 0:55 - The victim/drama triangle
  • 5:08 - The difference between blame and responsibility
  • 6:58 - Getting out of the victim seat
  • 8:31 - Inverting the victim triangle
  • 15:00 - Making the journey from victim to author
  • 18:15 - One challenging question


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